Just.

So to my surprise, more than a handful of you realized that I have killed my plurk and twitter accounts and were a wee tad worried when the blog was deathly quiet. (Edit: I killed the old dog. This entry was the last one of the whole lot imported here. I am unlocking them slowly when I get the time)

Thanks for your concern. I must admit I am always (strangely and then pleasantly) surprised when people care.

Well to cut the drama, I was considering to shut  down this blog or to make it private. Feeling too claustrophobic and too vulnerable. People reading this blog that I do not have too high an opinion of. People stalking out this blog for possible ammunition (there she goes shopping again). People sticking their noses into places where they should not be. I have had so many noses sniffing at my virtual ass that I am starting to feel like I have a colonoscopy foisted on me.

It also does not help that my chronic neck and shoulder problem is flaring up worse than ever. It renders me unable to even type sometimes and for someone who depends on bringing in dough word by word, it is tragic.

Have you ever had the experience of having people whom you dislike or have a low regard for read your blog? Care to share your experience?

As for me, I do miss the days where I can talk freely about the snippets of my life to the audience that  comprises primarily of friends and friendly strangers. I am still pondering on my next step of action; that is to make this blog private or to start another blog. Do drop me a note/ comment if you would like to continue reading.

The kind of test to do on a lazy afternoon when you have nothing better much to do or nursing a bad nose.

So anyway, here’s mine. Benevolent Ruler huh?

When it comes to Shaping Their Character, you’re

Specific Whether you’re an earth mother or a PTA president (or both!), you’re very concerned with setting specific expectations for your kids’ behavior. You do this both by telling them what to do and acting as a role model, and, in general, you expect them to follow your careful guidance. As a parent, you think you should be very actively involved in fostering your children’s growth, which includes determining what activities they should engage in – sports, tutoring, music, chores, art, yoga, whatever. When it comes to everything from family meals to manners and morals, you know what’s best.

When it comes to Making the Rules, you’re

A Benevolent Ruler When it comes to setting rules and expectations with your kids, you’re sort of a benevolent dictator – in the nicest way. When you know what’s best for them, there’s no need to discuss your decisions. But when it’s appropriate, you’re happy to take a more democratic approach and let your kids have their say. This kind of combination of firmness and fairness means that you can have open discussions with your children while still being able to assert your authority when it matters.

When it comes to Enforcing Discipline, you’re

Firm but Fair You’re firm, but fair. In general, you take an assertive approach to discipline. You think it’s best, since being direct lets kids know what’s expected of them. At the same time, parents like you indicated that children should be allowed some room to be free and explore; you’re happy for your kids to experiment and take chances (within reason), as long as they respect and obey their parents. There’s no purpose served by being overly strict.